Kindness... The best attribute of a human being

 Kindness...

The best attribute of a human being

Salah Rahmi means establishing good and better relations with our close relatives, living in harmony with each other, walking side by side in sorrow, pain, joy and sorrow, keeping in touch with each other, and Coming to each other. In order to maintain our relationship well and take care of each other's rights, be kind to them, give charity to them, help them if they are financially poor and weak, and take care of them in every way. Salah Rahmi is called, in Salah Rahmi, parents, siblings, wives, children, aunts, uncles and their children, etc., all these relatives come in Salah Rahmi, friends of their parents, friends with whom they have relations. One should be kind to everyone, when these relatives are not taken care of, their rights are not fulfilled, and they are not helped, then this is called unkindness.

It means to end all kinds of relations with your relatives, it is said in the Holy Qur'an, Translation: Give the right to the poor and the traveler to the relative. This is better for those who seek the pleasure of Allah, and they will be successful (Surah Rum, verse 38). I also fear Allah (An-Nisa: 1) And he says about it: Translation: And when We made a solemn covenant with the children of Israel that you people will not worship anyone but Allah, and with parents, the relationship You will be kind to relatives, orphans and the poor, speak good words to people, establish prayer and give zakat (al-Baqarah: 83). The Holy Prophet said, "A person who cuts off mercy will not enter Paradise" (Narrated by al-Bukhari, 5984). Breaking a relationship or disregarding a relationship is extremely abhorrent to Allah. The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said: On the Day of Mercy (which is the basis of kinship and relationship) he will hold the Arsh-e-Ilahi and say, "He who joined me in this world, Allah will join him today (i.e. He will grant him reward and honor) and he who joined me" In this world) Allah will cut him today, that is, he will punish him (Narrated by Al-Bukhari 5989). It is proven from the hadiths that there are two sins in this world that will be punished in this world along with the punishment of the hereafter. Merciful (Ibn Majah, 4211) A person who is merciful receives good things in both this world and the hereafter, just as mercy is a means of entering Paradise. The Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said, "There is no good deed greater in reward than the reward of mercy, nor is there any sin such that Allah will punish the one who commits it quickly in this world, and after that, there will be punishment in the Hereafter, except for disobedience." And without mercy" (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, 2511) A person came to the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, and said: O Messenger of Allah, I have committed a great sin; can I be forgiven? He asked if your mother is alive. He said no, you asked and aunt? He said they are alive, the Holy Prophet said: So do good to them" (Reported by al-Tirmidhi, 1904). I have given hope of forgiveness to the oppressed person through the reward of mercy. Giving Dar is also a charity and a kind reward" (Sunan Al-Nasa'i, Ibn Majah and al-Tirmidhi, Hadith Hasan) Hazrat Asmaa bint Abi Bakr RA said that her polytheist mother came to meet her and she wanted some wealth from her. So I asked the Messenger of Allah, may I have mercy on him? He said, "Yes." (Narrated by Al-Bukhari, 5978; Sunan Abi Dawud, Ahmad) Hazrat Ibn Umar (R.A.) says, "Whoever fears his Lord and shows mercy, his life will be increased and his wealth will be increased. His love is poured into his family, the saying of the Holy Prophet says: "Show mercy even if it is accompanied by peace" (Majjam al-Zawa'id 152-8). There will be, the Merciful, her life will be prolonged, and her sustenance will be extended, the woman whose husband dies leaving orphans, then he brings them up to wealth while raising them. Give or die, the person who feeds the orphans and the poor. It was narrated from Hazrat Abu Huraira that the Messenger of Allah, may God bless him and grant him peace, said, "There are three attributes, whoever I am, Allah will take an easy account of him and enter him into Paradise." Sahabah Ikram asked: Which (attributes)? The Holy Prophet said, Give to the one who deprives you, forgive the one who wrongs you, and connect with the one who breaks (relationship and connection) with you. He said, "You will be easily accounted for, and Allah, the Exalted, will admit you to Paradise by His mercy" (Mustadrak Ali Sahihin, 3842).

Hazrat Amro bin Shoaib narrates from his grandfather that a person came to the service of the Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him and complained that I have some close relatives who are unkind to him, I forgive and they wrong him. I treat them well and they treat me badly, should I repay them? The Holy Prophet said: No, then you will all become one, but attain excellence and do mercy, Allah will always appoint a helper for you as long as you remain in this state" (Narrated by Muslim, 2558) ) Mercy can be done in every era. It is not necessary for a person to give financial help, but it is necessary for him to give mercy with whatever he can afford. For example, encourage them by participating in their sorrows, having a good conversation with them, going to their house and finding out about their condition. Establish good relations with them, and share in their joys and sorrows. All these things come in Salah al-Rahimi, Allah Almighty says, Translation: These disobedient are those who break the covenant of Allah after confirming it with him, and cut that (tie) which Allah has ordered to join. And they create mischief in the earth, these are the ones who will suffer the loss (Al-Baqarah, 2: 27). There will be losers. In the same way, Allah Ta'ala has commanded mercy in numerous verses and the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has also commanded mercy among themselves in the blessed hadiths. We should take care of mercy in every situation, lest those relatives who are poor, end their relations with them due to poverty and consider it insulting to call them their relatives. Refuses to accept his relative in front of his friends. Like when children are young, they throw their parents out of the house and do not care about their rights, all these things are major sins and will be punished on the Day of Judgment. May He grant you the opportunity and grant you the opportunity to reward mercy, in this is unity and true success in this world and the hereafter.